It’s 8am on a Monday, and both you and your spouse need to get ready to go to work. Who gets to use the shower first? Are you both in such a rush that you constantly bump into each other? It’s a frustrating situation to be in. In the worst case, such seemingly minor things can add up into a full blown argument. Trying to make things work in a small bathroom is a common struggle for many couples. However, the fix is quite simple: a well-designed his and hers bathroom.

Should We Have Separate Bathrooms?

A his and hers bathroom can be approached in two ways. You can either create two fully separate bathrooms or go for a shared bathroom. The main limiting factor is the space availability in your home. You’ll need more floor area to accommodate double of everything –bathroom fixtures, sinks, cabinetry, tiles, showers, etc.

If space is non-issue to you, then think of how much privacy you want. Some people just don’t want their spouse to see all the less-than-glamorous things we have to do in the bathroom –like shaving our legs. You should also think about you and your partner’s preferred designed styles. Maybe he wants a darker moody palette, while she wants something bright. She might want a more spacious bathtub, but he wants that extra space for the shower instead. It’s in these types of cases where having fully separate his and hers bathrooms truly shine.

Creating Personal Space in a Shared Bathroom

If you don’t have enough space for separate bathrooms or you just think it’s wasteful, then you and your partner have to share. However, this doesn’t mean that you can’t have your own personal space in it. Here are some ideas that you can use in your shared his and hers bathroom.

Double Sink Vanity

Mornings can easily be frustrating for couples as we’ve shown in our example earlier. Two people rushing to get ready, hovering over a single sink and mirror is a recipe for disaster. Give yourself and your spouse your own spaces with a double sink vanity. This allows you both to get ready side-by-side instead on waiting on each other to finish. As a bonus, the added countertop space lets you cleanly separate your bath products and keep things organized.

Double Shower Heads

Does your spouse tend to hog the shower? Does it always seem to happen when you’re rushing the most? Then, consider doubling up on the shower. Having a double shower lets you and your partner shower together without butting into each other’s heads. You can set it up side by side or by creating semi-separate areas within a single enclosure A double shower setup can greatly cut down on waiting time, and lets you have a large space when you do shower solo.

Separate Bathroom Zones

If you have enough space, but just don’t like the idea of fully separate bathrooms, you can have individual bathroom zones instead. You can each have your own separate bathroom vanity and separate shower stall. Your his and hers bathroom will then have a common space shared in the middle. It keeps a level of intimacy, while providing the comforts of having your own personal area.

Separate Toilet Room

Have you ever had your spouse or any family member knocking on the bathroom door, telling you to hurry up because they need to use the toilet? Well, a separate toilet room is just what you need. You may think it’s a bit outdated, but it can be life changing in a shared bathroom. One can sit on the porcelain throne while the other is showering and getting ready for the day. Another added benefit is that a separate toilet room is more hygienic and keeps foul odors out of the main bathroom space.

Plentiful Storage Spaces

Maybe you and your partner don’t really have any issues on who gets to use the bathroom when. However, another common source of marital strife is something so simple –clutter. A too-small bathroom won’t have enough space for two persons’ worth of shampoo, conditioner, makeup, shaving cream, etc. By providing enough storage space in your his and hers bathroom, you can keep things tidy and prevent your personal items from encroaching into the other’s space.

Double the Accessories

Lastly, since we’ve already suggested doubling up the bathroom fixtures, why not do the same for accessories. Double the robe hooks, heated hanging rods, towel rings, etc. Clearly define which is his and which is hers can keep things harmonious in the bathroom.

Harmony in a Shared Space

While we have vowed to share the rest of our life with our partner, conflicts are unavoidable. Sometimes it’s the buildup of little things that get us on edge. A misplaced toothbrush may be a small thing, but small things can add up. By considering your couple dynamics and how each of you use a shared bathroom space, you can create a more pleasant and harmonious marital life together.

Ready to create the perfect his and hers bathroom for you and your partner? We at Wood & Co. can help. Get in touch with us for your bathroom design and fabrication needs in The Hamptons, Long Island, New York City, and nearby areas. From your double sink vanity to your elaborate bathroom cabinet solutions, we have the tools and expertise to get it done.